words have meaning. words make you feel. yes actions speak louder than words but there is no denying the weight of words. what you do matters… but also what you say matters. so when someone reacts negatively to something you said, you can’t just say sorry and all forgotten or that it was a joke or you didn’t mean it. you said it. you meant it and you can’t change it. think before you speak. think of the situation and be considerate of others. don’t be selfish in your own world and be trivial. have a bit of perspective and look at the bigger picture. honestly i really hate it when people try to turn it around after it’s done. no. you can’t take it back and i won’t forget it. ever.